This is a typical sad story of a broken marriage, but not rare and indeed of multi-ethnic dimension. It’s also not unique to the MCA as the parties involved have been alleged to be members of.
Wife no longer cares for husband, but still hasn’t yet broken off marriage. She stays with another man, and was probably having a quiet nookie or two. 2nd man was either seriously interested in her or just having a few free bonks.
Friends told cuckolded hubby, hubby organised a surprise raid with friends, broke down door of the lovers hideout, wife found cowering in bedroom pretending or hoping to be one of those X-men who could disappear, while 2nd man attempted to brave it out by ‘acting don’t know’, and when that didn't work, started to act tough.
By the time the police arrived because of the commotion or fracas, it’s a case of “he said, she said, you said, I said, they said …” etc.
The best thing for the husband to do to maintain his dignity is to officially separate from her. She no longer cares for him, so why hang on.
Yes, in the old days, the Chinese would shove the adulteress into a pig’s bamboo cage, with a couple of heavy rocks, and throw the lot into the river to drown her. The man would get his dick sliced off. But this is 2006 and society no longer tolerates drowning adulteress like caged sows or stoning them to death, nor castrating itchy dicks.
Get a divorce, buddy, and live with it. In the long run, you'll be happier.
Whoa, mate, I didn't propose the slicing of anyone's dick. I merely mentioned that's the medieval way of rough justice, when women were properties rather than equal partners.
ReplyDeleteMarriages are contractual agreements. When relationship sours, end the contract - the exit agreement must be there - nowadays the property aspects are known as prenuptial agreements.
It's traumatic but at least no one gets cheated, which fans emotions high. There were two cases recently where the lovers were killed. One had his head bashed with a riding helmut by an angry husband, and another was stabbed in the cheek by the Indon husband. The sad thing is both hubbies would be set to prison for years for a moment of uncontrolled fury, whilst the naughty wives are outside, left to play, again(?).